Reproof - to be Given in love – Charles Spurgeon

Preaching on John 13:14 — the duty of disciples to wash one another’s feet— Mr. Finlayson, of Helmsdale, observed, ” One way in which disciples wash one another’s feet is by reproving one another. But the reproof must not be couched in angry words, so as to destroy the effect; nor in tame, so as to fail of effect, just as in washing a brother’s feet, you must not use boiling water to scald, nor frozen water to freeze.